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Moving Beyond Shame and Regret: Part Five
Click here to read part 4 of this series Christians sometimes talk about “strongholds” and may have in mind something […]

Four Invitations You Should Send Out Right Now
The first day my wife and I moved into our new home there were open boxes littering the rooms; everything […]

Moving Beyond Shame and Regret: Part Four
If you’re a child of God, the only prerequisite to being forgiven of sin is your honest confession. The Bible […]

Avoiding the Vortex of Valentine’s Day
Want to know why? Because it’s the day where people compare themselves to others and standards are set by society […]

Order Is Important
God created the light first because He is the giver of light. He is the only one worthy of our worship and adoration.

Moving Beyond Shame and Regret: Part Three
Shame can come from several sources. Sometimes, it’s forced upon us by people who made choices over which we had […]

Five Ways to Find the Missing Link
I grew up hearing the term “the missing link” a lot. My dad was a police detective for almost four […]

A Creator for Creation
There had to have been a moment where the creator, who already existed, brought forth life.

Moving Beyond Shame and Regret: Part Two
Neuroscientists and psychologists have known for decades about the connection between suppressed emotions like anger or anxiety, and our physical […]

Here’s How You Know You’re Ready to Marry One of Those Fish
There are a lot of questions when dating or talking to someone you are interested in. In the beginning stages, […]

Moving Beyond Shame and Regret: Part One
Rick Warren recently wrote a great article about how Our Churches Should Be No Shame Zones. I’ve been surprised at the […]

When God Comes to Shake Things Up
We so badly want God to show up and do great and mighty things. But we also want him to […]

The Truth About Fasting and 7 Ways to Do It
We’ve heard people say they are going to start a “fast,” whether for health reasons, for spiritual reasons, or maybe […]

10 Dating Commitments Teenagers MUST Make
The world of dating is about as convoluted as you’d expect. Two messed-up sinners trying to figure out not only […]

Here’s the Reason You Exist
On March 5, 1995, I was on a school bus headed to Louisville, Kentucky, for a field trip when I […]

This is What “Living Sent” Means
The command to “live sent” may or may not be a familiar phrase in today’s church vernacular. Same goes for […]

Lessons From the Ultimate Traitor
Even if you’ve never read the Bible, you know who he is and what he did. Thesaurus.com lists Judas as a synonym […]

Human Trafficking: What it is and Why You Should Care
January is human trafficking awareness month. Instead of submitting an overload of statistics or information, I’d simply like to bring […]

Five Reasons Being a Prisoner is a Good Thing
“As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have […]

The Tough Decision to Give My Dog Away
It was that worst-case scenario: “What if our new-born son is allergic to our beloved dog?” On paper, it’s easy. […]

Steve’s Story: A Lesson in Love and Grace
It was another cold, rainy day in Washington, D.C. Steve, an African American in his late 40s, was making his […]

Seize the Day . . . No, Seize the Decade!
A new year is here! Not just a new year – a new decade. Somehow, it seems impossible to think […]

Something Missing in Your Life? Don’t Start With Religion.
Perhaps one of the biggest frustrations in life is not knowing where to start. It is a common problem for […]

What is Your Internal Canary Bird Singing to You?
In the old days of mining, the miners took a canary bird down with them while they worked. This bird […]

What Does Your Life Reflect?
I noticed the other day that my wife has been using the word precious more frequently. I’ve known her for over twelve years, […]

Prayer is Much More Than You Think it is
“God is Great God is Good Let us thank him for our food. Amen” When my brother and I were […]

This is How Job Teaches a Lesson on Character
One of my mentors has taught me a great lesson on character. His name is Job. Even though we’ve never met […]

This is Why a Sheep Loves to Read
In a pivotal passage, Jesus explains, “I know my own and my own know me” (John 10:14). In this verse he […]

This is Why Satan Wants Your Soul
I suppose two mistakes can be made as you ponder Satan’s work in your life. While we can agree his […]

The Truth About What it’s Like to be a Preacher’s Kid
“Well, you know what they say about the preacher’s daughter.” [Insert boyish snickers and winks here.] This is a phrase […]

Instead of Self-Obsession, Try Focusing on This Obsession
I think we’ve all experienced it before—that sense of timidity and insecurity, feeling like everyone can see it written all […]

A New Year, a New Decade, the Same Promise
Starting a new decade makes me think of all kinds of things. This year will mark twenty years since I […]

Do You Have “Dishwasher Faith”?
It seems to me that the dishwasher has got to be the most misunderstood appliance in our homes today. I […]

The God Who Sees You
There she sat alone by the water. Given to a man, by no choice of her own, only to be […]

What Does it Mean to be “Born Again”?
We’ve all heard the phrase “born again”. Some mock. Some scratch their temple. Some bend their knees in worship. But, […]

When Godly People Get Depressed
I recently wrote the following tweet, and it received a lot of reaction. Good people get depressed. Godly people get depressed. […]

We Pay a High Price for Social Media
In the late nineteenth century, newspaper companies pioneered a powerful marketing concept that still to this day dominates our media […]

The Answer For Those Who Suffer Quietly in Church
What’s the answer for the many who suffer quietly in the supposed safe place for the hurting–the church–yet go without […]

Sin Brings Pleasure – And That’s OK to Admit
Sin brings pleasure, but not satisfaction. It brings ruin, never flourishing. Disobeying God sounds good somewhere in the bowels of […]

A Christian’s Response to The First Temptation of Christ
This Christmas season, Netflix released a host of holiday movies. One of them, a satirical comedy, is called The First Temptation […]

What We Missed During the Busy-ness of Christmas
I have been so busy this last month. Christmas parties, decorating for Christmas, wrapping presents, keeping kids out of the […]

The Secret of Christianity We So Often Forget
The secret of Christianity is that God has given us himself. That’s the prize. And many Christians today have lost […]

When Everything Seems to be Falling Apart
Sometimes, everything around you seems to be falling apart. Your kids are making bad choices… You can’t seem to communicate […]

How Do I Know I’m Really a Christian?
I’ve lost count of people who’ve come into my office asking, “How do I know I’m a Christian? Like, really know?” […]

The Best Resolution Ever
There is no escaping the fact that we live in a very divided country. It seems that the political division […]

He Calms the Storm and He Heals Our Hearts
Late one evening, Jesus and the disciples boarded a boat to cross the Sea of Galilee to the other side […]

Doing Ministry in the Christian Bubble
As a Christian (and a pastor, at that!) I can easily get into the rut of the infamous ‘Christian Bubble’ […]

Lesson From The Grinch
One of my favorite subtle movie lines is found in The Grinch (the Jim Carrey edition). In a scene where he’s busy […]

Your Christmas Table Isn’t Extravagant Enough
Wow, the spread this year! Whether you’re catering in from a restaurant (be honest, it’s tempting!) or delegating dishes to […]

Surviving the Most Wonderful Time of the Year when You’re Grieving
by Lifeword Executive Director Donny Parrish Christmas can be the worst. That doesn’t sound very religious coming from a guy […]